Why Small Groups?/Appendix: "What It Means to Me"
From Gospel Translations
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the members got cups of coffee and settled into their familiar niches around the room.
Charlie, the leader, cleared his throat to signal that things were starting. As he did with
merciless regularity each week, he began with the question, “Well, what do these verses
mean to you?”
The discussion followed a familiar pattern. Each responded to what the verses
meant to him or her, and the group reached its weekly general consensus—at least on
the easier verses. They all knew what was coming, however: another stalemate
between Donnell and Maria. Donnell had been a Christian for several years and was
the self-appointed resident theologian. For some reason he always seemed to lock
horns with Maria, a relatively new Christian, yet an enthusiastic student of the Bible.
The scene repeated itself every time they came to
difficult verses. The passage would elicit conflicting interpretations. Donnell would
argue vehemently for the interpretation of his former pastor, which usually seemed a
bit forced to the rest of the group. But it was Maria, being new and perhaps more
straightforward, who would challenge Donnell. Because she didn’t know the Bible that
well yet, she would relate the difficult verse to her Christian experience in a way that
contradicted Donnell’s interpretation. Donnell would only redouble his efforts.
The stalemate usually ended with Charlie, the leader, or Betty, the resident peacemaker,
bringing “resolution” to the discussion. One of them would calmly conclude by
saying, “Well, this is another example of how reading the Bible is a matter of personal
interpretation and how a verse can mean one thing to one person and something else to
another.” The group members would leave with a vague, hollow feeling in their chests.
